What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence, without a standard form and predetermined result. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Of course, always with regard for (shared) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of heart and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The result is often a fantastic physical, psychological well-being. Normally, the receiver is really relaxed, wonderfully streaming and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and also feels (eventually) from the heart.
Full of attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence. Both the provider and the receiver are totally present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Do not take a look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or receiving the massage. A very mindful touch from the heart. Get likewise extremely knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question. Whatever occurs in the moment, completely consciousness, lovingly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or going to sleep is likewise not intended (still, when that's exactly what you need, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't really about a fixed result
A tantric massage will constantly be various. It is not the technique or the preferred series of massaging that is essential, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take a really unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in bliss.
Ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long time, obviously, however considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually come up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver constantly should be ensured. Caring attunement always precedes.
Set clear boundaries beforehand
Every individual (except when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is also required (check out the short article on protecting limits. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make certain there is a correct consumption, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear borders beforehand: about psychological boundaries, as well as make sure for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a misconception that a tantric massage need to constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also totally ok (though hard to deal with oil then). It is also a misconception that a tantric massage should be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have actually given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. In addition, in fact each cell is sensual, but you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation easily
Activating and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erotic zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ creation/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage becomes part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented motion, a vision of life intended at growing in love and awareness. In a flash you can become informed (by 1000% surrender), however normally, that is a process in time. Tantra knows different methods to utilize on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no function aside from self-realization: bring back the natural (ecstatic) state of being.
Typically resulting in a fantastic physical, mental wellness
Tantra assists you to end up being more unwinded, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring and so much more. Actually, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Due to the fact that this is precisely what takes place typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is completely enabled! A tantra massage is typically nice, sometimes tasty. We, therefore, welcome you to totally take pleasure in receiving ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are many kinds of massage. Obviously, all massages have particular practices and methods in typical. There is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (aimed at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (targeted at enjoyment satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (focused on healing).
Not Treatment
Well since you are actually very energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but treatment is an occupation apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth description, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you begin
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide great conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* When in a while ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Build in integration (rest) moments.
Demand free.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Again, do not try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is but there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Regard boundaries, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not news escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. Know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being aroused is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can come up.
* Look out to restored freezing minutes. Prevent limits from being crossed once again.
* Step by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. However beware: no sex! Practice makes perfect. Delighting in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and provide integration minutes (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not hurry to the weather ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential recovery impact. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as healing, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you learn what it is like to love yourself.
Is enjoying.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love change, you might end up being not only happy but even blissful. A thrilled state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the much better you will feel.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard kind, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Generally leading to a fantastic physical, mental well-being (of both).